Tasha Cunningham – Miami – How to Dump Your Dude the Right Way
We’ve all been there, ladies. We wake up one morning and realize the guy sleeping next to us is not the guy we want to marry or better yet, we’re really keen on cutting him lose. So how can a gal dump a dude without dredging up drama?
1. Your relationship didn’t start in cyberspace, and even if it did, don’t end it there. Don’t break up with your guy via e-mail, Blackberry, texting or using anything technology related. It’s impersonal and you’d been quite upset if he ended your love affair that way.
2. Be strong. Think long and hard about whether or not you want to break up with your man and if the answer is yes, be firm. Don’t waiver from your decision.
3. Tell him first - after you tell your best friend, of course. Don’t let your man find out he’s been dumped by the door man at your apartment building. Tell him.
4. Secure a little face time. When you’re ready to do the deed, do it in person. There’s no way around it.
5. The truth shall set you free. Don’t give him some lame excuse like, ‘it’s not you, it’s me. That one’s clichéd. Tell him the truth about why you’re breaking up with him.
Good luck!
